Selling During Divorce

Selling the house in a divorce in Elmont

Nobody in a divorce wants to spend six months keeping a house show-ready for strangers, and nobody wants the sale price to be one more thing to argue about.

We give both sides the same written number on the same day, for an Elmont house in whatever condition it is currently in. What you do with that number is between you, your ex and your attorneys.

How we help with a divorce house sale in Elmont

What we have learned from divorce sales is that the process matters as much as the price. Anything that requires the two of you to cooperate repeatedly turns into one more argument.

So we make it single step. One visit, one written offer, one closing date, and everything through the attorneys if that is preferable. We will also say honestly whether listing the Elmont house would put more into the pot to divide, because you should hear that before the settlement is drafted rather than after.

Selling a house during a divorce in Elmont: finished basement with belongings left behind
Selling a house during a divorce in Elmont? We buy occupied houses as-is. Pictured: finished basement with belongings left behind.

Getting a firm figure on the Elmont marital home

An agent gives you an opinion of value and a listing price. What actually arrives, months later, may be higher or lower. That uncertainty is very hard to divide, and in a divorce everything eventually has to be divided.

A written cash offer is a fixed figure. It goes straight into the negotiation, into the attorneys' file, into the spreadsheet where the rest of the divorce settlement lives. Some couples accept it. Some use it as a floor and list anyway. Both are sensible outcomes.

Why local knowledge changes the number

A four-bedroom on Harrison Street. A three-bedroom on Renfrew Avenue. A three-bedroom on Rosser Avenue. All of them in Elmont, all bought by us.

Elmont is roughly 37,296 people in Nassau County, ZIP 11003, and the housing stock is mostly cape cod, ranch, multi-family. Around Belmont Park and UBS Arena, most of it is old enough that the mechanicals are on their second or third life. The Elmont-UBS Arena stop pulls buyers who commute, which supports the good houses and does very little for the ones that need a roof. We know which of these streets take water, where the older systems fail first, and what the Elmont Union Free School District does to a resale price.

Selling an Elmont house without showings

Keeping a house presentable for strangers is a shared job, and in a divorce the shared jobs are exactly the ones that stop getting done. Then the showings go badly, the price drifts down, and it becomes one more thing to blame each other for. That is the ordinary course of a listed divorce sale, not a worst case.

There is no sign with us, no listing, no photographs online, and no open house in Elmont. One visit, one number, one closing date.

Choosing your own closing date in a divorce sale

Sometimes the useful thing is to close quickly and end the joint ownership. Sometimes it is to close slowly, so a child finishes the school year in Elmont. Both are fine, and it is your choice rather than ours.

We set the date around what the divorce needs. There is no lender behind us whose schedule has to be accommodated, which is why the date is genuinely negotiable here rather than only nominally so.

What the two paths cost in Elmont

These are the two routes open to you with a house in a divorce, priced against what Elmont houses actually sell for.

Work it against Elmont's own numbers. The median sale here is $725,000. A 5% commission on that is $36,250, and seller closing costs of about 2% add roughly $14,500. Those are costs we can cover on our side. That is $50,750 gone before anyone counts the repairs it took to get the house listable.

There are two waits in a listed sale and people usually only count the first. In Elmont the median house takes about 43 days to go from listed to a signed contract. Then it waits again, typically 45 to 60 days, while the buyer's lender orders an appraisal and underwrites the loan. Call it 88 to 103 days from sign to keys, assuming nothing goes wrong.

The part worth understanding is what a signed contract actually guarantees, which is less than most sellers assume. A retail buyer with a mortgage contingency can walk away right up to the end. If they do not qualify, if the appraisal comes in under the price, if they change their mind and let the financing lapse. A share of deals die exactly there, after months of waiting, and the house goes back on the market with time on it. We are not borrowing anything, so there is no lender to satisfy, no appraisal to come in low and no contingency to exercise.

 Listing with an agentSelling to us
Sale price$725,000 (Elmont median)Our written offer
Commission−$36,250None
Seller closing costs−$14,500We can cover them
Repairs before listingOut of pocketNone
CleanoutYoursOurs
ShowingsUntil it sellsOne visit
Listed to signed contract43 days (Elmont median, once listable)24 hours to a written offer
Contract to closing45 to 60 days (waiting on the buyer's lender)A date you choose
Total wait88 to 103 days if nothing falls throughYours to set
Can the buyer walk?Yes (mortgage contingency runs to the end)No financing to fall through
Before repairs and carrying$674,250The number we put in writing

For the listing side we have used a 5% commission and about 2% in seller closing costs; your real figures may differ. Repairs and carrying costs are left out because they depend on the house. If yours is in good shape, a good agent may well get you more than we would, and we will tell you if so.

Both names on the deed

Everyone on the deed has to sign the contract. That is the practical limit on what any buyer can do in a divorce, and it is worth saying plainly rather than letting anyone hope otherwise. Divorce settlements often turn on this exact point.

What we can do is put the same written offer in front of both parties and both attorneys on the same day, so nobody is working from different information. Frequently that is enough, because a real figure changes the conversation in a way an argument about value never does.

What you do not pay when you sell a house in a divorce

Each of the following comes with a retail listing of a house in a divorce, and none of it comes with ours.

Agent commission
$36,250 at 5% of the Elmont median
none
Seller closing costs
About $14,500 on a $725,000 sale. We can cover these.
none
Repairs to make it listable
Everything a buyer would flag, paid for before you list
none
Cleanout and removal
Dumpsters or haulers by the load, ahead of any viewing
none
Carrying costs while it waits
Taxes, insurance and utilities across the 88 to 103 days it takes to find a buyer and then wait on their lender
none

When a divorce buyout beats a sale

The buyout math is worth running before you list anything. One spouse refinances, pays the other their share of the equity, and keeps the Elmont house. It fails more often on the monthly payment than on the equity, because one income has to carry what two were carrying.

A written offer from us gives the divorce a value to run that math against. Whether the answer is a buyout or a sale, you will have decided with a real number rather than a guess.

Common questions

Do both of us have to agree to sell the Elmont house?

Everyone on the deed has to sign the contract. We can put the same written offer in front of both parties and both attorneys at once, so nobody in the divorce is working from different information about what the house is worth.

Can the offer go to our attorneys directly?

Yes. Send us their details and we will deal with them rather than with either of you, if that is what the divorce needs.

Can we sell before the divorce is finalized?

Frequently yes, and plenty of couples do, with the proceeds held or split according to the agreement. How that gets structured is a question for your divorce attorney, and we will work to whatever they set up.

What if my spouse is still living in the Elmont house?

That is workable. We can view the house at a time that suits whoever is there, and we can set a closing date that gives them a reasonable window to move. Occupancy does not stop us buying.

Will you tell my ex what I said to you?

We do not carry messages between two sides of a divorce. The offer goes to both parties identically, and anything you tell us about your circumstances stays with us.

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